Saturday, March 2, 2013

Managing

Eight months into the Eye journey and we are managing. Managing the good days, the bad days and saying good-bye to our trusted PO.

Our good days start off without a fight. She willing chooses which patch to wear and asks for her glasses and then asks for them to be cleaned. She patches and only asks every 5 minutes to take her patch off (unless Doc McStuffins is on).



And sometimes she even poses

Our bad days...oh our bad days. We battle from the beginning.  'No patch in the morning, no patch in the afternoon,' she says. I've learned patching in the morning is easier and gum is a great bribe. But patching in public cannot be bribed and makes for an awful experience for us.

Even waiting for Prince Charming at Chuck E Cheese doesn't help
I've done my best with patching every day, 4 hours a day.  And she's done her best too. Filling her patch chart and getting surprises are awesome motivators.

AND it's paid off. We had an AWESOME visit with our PO. First, we got to hang out in the waiting room with a fellow imom and ikid.  The coolest thing was that they kind of recognized each other... Thank you instagram and #camopatchkids.  Then, Mallory sat in the chair, by herself for the first time. She rocked those eye charts, right down to the 20/25 line... Both eyes are seeing about the same (I did a little happy dance in my head).  Pressure is good in her eye.  We are down to patching 2 hours a day!  Mallory is still adjusting because when I say she can take her patch off, her response is 'Wow, that was speedy quick today, huh, Mom?'

Saying farewell to our amazing PO was...sad.  Mallory colored her another portfolio of pictures for her new office in Orlando.  She answered questions my questions again... Yes, this was a congenital cataract that didn't affect her vision until she was four. Yes, she will patch a little while longer, probably til she is 6. No, she doesn't really recommend transition lenses for her, but her progressive lenses are okay.  I will always be grateful that she didn't kick me out of her office the day I asked her if  she thought she was qualified to do Mallory's cataract surgery.  Ha! If I only knew then.....  Until her follow up appointment in May with her new PO, we will manage.