Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Jitters

I'm not sure what is worse the anticipation for eye appointments or the allergist appointments.  I get the pre-appointment jitters for the eye appointments because I don't know what they are going to tell me.  Is the eye still the same? Are her pressures good?  Will we increase or decrease patching time?  Anything could change.  For the allergist appointments, I get the pre-appointment jitters, because NOTHING is going to change. He will ALWAYS be severely allergic to peanuts and he will ALWAYS have asthma.  Allergist appointments are reality in full color. They are the appointments that tell me no matter what I do, I can't make this better or make it go away.
Overall, the appointment went well.  Peanut allergy is the same and we are to continue avoidance of peanuts and all nuts when we are in public.
Asthma is hit or miss.  This beautiful WNY weather is terrible for is asthma.  We are currently using both his  maintenance inhaler and his rescue inhaler.  This will likely continue until June.  At least I now know what are likely triggers for him and what helps.  We will continue with our current treatment and follow up in a year.
Proud mom moment at the visit:  The allergist told Nick he seemed very mature for his age regarding his allergy and asthma.  It's nice to hear.  It's not that I take credit for it,. Nick has had this since he was 8 months old so he knows no other way.   It just reinforces that we are doing something right with educating and trying to teach him responsibility.
While the appointment went well, real life living with a peanut allergy gets harder for me.  We try to do 'normal' things, but as he gets older, it gets harder.  Easter Sunday we decided to stay for brunch at church.  BIG mistake.  The brunch was great, but Nick couldn't eat anything, but fruit.  And at 8, he's just not that satisfied with fruit for breakfast.  There were peanuts/nuts on almost everything and the food that didn't have nuts were sitting next nut filled food.  We graciously at our fruit, excused ourselves and headed off to McDonalds.  So sometimes trying to do normal things, just doesn't work.  I'll keep practicing and by the time he graduates, it will all be normal :)

The EYE has taught me that accessorizing is cool (even for boys). Here's a shout out to two of our favorite 'accessories':

A pencil case from PBTeen (I love that store).  Seriously, this case only cost $3.99 (personalization is $7) and can hold 2 epi-pens, 2 inhalers, a spacer, 4 doses of single dose Benadryl and 4 packets of handi-wipes. It goes where ever we go and can clip onto bags.

Survival straps is our latest Medical ID purchase.  Some argue that it looks too fashionable and can't easily be identified as a Medical Alert bracelet.  I say, whatever he'll wear consistently is much better than the bracelet laying on his dresser.  Survival straps lets you  custom design the bracelet. So, of course, his bracelet is the color of our monster truck.  And the price isn't too bad.
Photo courtesy of Survival Straps.com 


3 comments:

  1. I know that feeling of hoping things will change but really knowing they won't and trying to find peace with that... you have come a long way with all of your children, bravo! Super Epi-imom continues... ;)

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  2. You are really the Super Epi-imom. The jitters are always the worse, then you see how brave and awesome your kid is and the jitters are replaced by pride! And amazement that our kids go through this stuff everyday and are little warrior, hero, cool people. How did we get so blessed to have such amazing little people in our lives! And I love the survival medi-alert bracelet. Very cool.

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